Work on yourself and for yourself
· Ilona Staneva

If you can avoid making compromises – don't make them. If you have already made a compromise – try your best to use the situation to learn something new that will be useful for your future development!
Introduce yourself in a few sentences..
In a professional
sense - a marketer and advertiser with over 25 years of experience in the field. In recent
years, my focus has been on sustainable business models and women's
entrepreneurship, and my personal challenge with the advent of
digitalization and artificial intelligence in work processes is related to
the communication of balance, both among internal and external audiences.
What did you dream of becoming in your childhood?
Princess,
archaeologist, orthopedic surgeon... and all of this is due to the sagas “Star Wars”, “Indiana Jones” and “Hospital at the End of the City”.
At what age did you earn your first money? Share with us an interesting story?
I was 7-8
years old when the first folding bicycles “Balkan” appeared, I really wanted to
have one, not the “Shkolnik” that I was riding. My parents gave me the green light, but said that I had to earn the amount of 75 BGN myself, which was a challenge, first,
because the amount was not small - more than half of the standard salary for those years, and second – the job options for a child of that age were not many. So, I spent the whole summer with
relatives in the village, where tobacco was harvested and “strung”. We got up at 5 and
worked until 15-16 o'clock, but by the end of the summer I had a “Balkanche”, and working with tobacco and
sticky tar completely turned me off from thoughts of “cigarettes” forever.
What are the main factors and examples that shape us as individuals at an earlier age
and form our interests? What is your recipe for curiosity, sources
and wells of information and inspiration at this stage of our human development?
For me, it was
family, school, and my circle of friends. The sources of information are
determined by technologies. My childhood was influenced by
traditional media, and books and cinema were a major source of inspiration for
me, as well as the environment in which I grew up. Being a child of a mixed marriage, I could touch upon several cultures, not only because of my maternal relatives but also
because we lived in a block populated with children whose parents were also
representatives of other languages and cultures. And not least – school,
believe me, this is a factor in shaping a worldview that should not be underestimated.
I am grateful to all my teachers, even to those in mathematics 😊
Did any significant difference occur in your perceptions in a more mature age regarding what
motivates you to do or not do something?
Definitely yes, with
age and accumulated experience I became “more precise” in my “battles”. Especially
after “Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” by Pirsig, from where I have
many favorite moments, the main one being “You can't have much of a conversation on a moving motorcycle unless you like to shout. Instead, time is spent in sensing things and reflecting on them... you ponder things in complete calm, at length and in detail, without rushing and without the feeling that you are wasting your time.”
Whose decision was it where to pursue higher education and what to study? Was this decision correct,
looking at it from today's perspective?
I made the decision
unilaterally and if I say it wasn't correct, I will have to admit that my parents' advice was better.
Outside the circle of jokes – to this day I still think I was right.
Share with us more about your interests, knowledge, skills, and hobbies?
I graduated in “Marketing, Advertising and Business Administration”
at UNSS, specialized in Women
Making History at
Harvard University, Integrated Marketing Communications at Delaware University, Design
Thinking at Emeritus Institute of Management, and
Sustainable Business Management at University of Cambridge.
On a personal level –
a mother of a grown and successful son, a lover of art, travel, skiing,
and snowboarding. A fan of the Star Wars saga, London weather, Depeche
Mode and mini American bullies.
My hobbies lately – recognizing paintings by famous artists that have appeared in films of the American film industry and visiting their exhibitions.
Would you change your profession today and which fields of activity capture your interest?
Maybe, yes, and with some craft.
They say that your personal brand is everything that people say about you when you are not in the same room with them. What would you like to hear today?
I am not sure
that I am ready for the truth...Years ago, a lady I interviewed but did not
hire for a position in my department wrote a negative review online,
where she compared me to Naomi Campbell. I went to inform my direct supervisor
- the CEO of the company, so that this negative post would not affect our employer brand. While telling him about
the review, I mentioned that I was compared to Naomi Campbell, his reaction was “So beautiful?”, while the truth was “So brazen”. So whatever I hear,
let there be room for at least two interpretations, please.
Emotional
intelligence, adaptability, and flexibility, as well as our soft skills are
key conditions for success in recent years. How do you cope with
daily life challenges to stay in good shape and
mood?
I find it hard to lose
enthusiasm and that is one of my positive traits. Like every extrovert –
I share, analyze, and make decisions quickly /not to say that I always make
the right ones/. Otherwise, sports help me with bad moods. My son, when he was
a student, always understood that something bad had happened at parent meetings because
when I got home, I first went up for half an hour on the “treadmill” and “cross trainer”, and only then did we talk. In fact, I have a ritual for years – every
morning I “go through” my 40-minute workouts, that way I ensure that I will show up in front of my team in a good mood.
What are the most important conclusions you have drawn so far about maintaining the right
communication considering the different characters of the people you meet
daily – colleagues, friends, relatives?
I try to “put myself in the other person's shoes”, even though I am a demanding person and the rule of
reciprocal communication is valid 100% for me.
What do you think about money? What is their influence on your life? What is your advice to
people who often ask themselves questions related to money and how sufficient they are?
The rule for me
is one – money is not an end in itself, but a means to achieve goals. Invest in
yourself, your goals, your children, in education and personal causes.
What is the most valuable career advice you would give to people?
Work on
yourself and for yourself. If you can avoid making compromises – don't make them. If
you have already made a compromise – try your best to use the
situation to learn something new that will be useful for your future
development. Take advantage of every circumstance that enriches you. Don't lose
enthusiasm.