Do not cross the boundary of personal space, be consistent in your image

Introduce yourself in a few words..

Dr. Mariiela Hitova, managing partner at EuroDerma clinic in Sofia - focused on clinical dermatology, aesthetic medicine, laser systems, venereology, and regenerative therapies, certified for clinical trials and is the only private clinic - base for training specialists.

How would you describe your career in a few words?

Consistently upward. I started as a derematologist at the Dispensary for Skin and Venereal Diseases in Veliko Tarnovo, then continued at the Dispensary in Sofia, where I was also the manager of the medical facility for nearly ten years. Towards the end, I founded a private clinic in partnership, where we managed to develop the diversity of dermatology with vision and to work as true collaborators. It is extremely important for the team to have similar energy, and I am glad that for more than 10 years my colleagues and I have been together, and the young additions embody the future of our specialty – smart, curious, persistent, intelligent, and well-mannered.

What was the most important choice that shaped your path In?

Definitely to leave my secure prestigious position and to start from the beginning to develop a project, that would establish itself as a benchmark. But this confidence was the result of many years of accumulation – comprehensive knowledge in medicine, a sense of global changes, security in the loyalty of patients, and support from family.

What would you like to know at the beginning of your career, but no one told you?

That things do not always depend on us, but that we must be prepared for them - and they will really happen at the right time. Patience has never been my strength, but I learned to wait and not to want at any cost, because sooner or later everything falls into place  and I find that it had to happen that way.

How can a person understand which profession is suitable for them?

Looking at the young people who come into my office, I can say that the variety of options confuses them and they often change, try, are uncertain - perhaps under the influence of social networks and the enormous information, which is normal. But many are also categorical in their desires. The profession is felt -  you love it, your relationship overcomes any shocks precisely because you know why you are together - like with the partner next to you. Different professions imply different types of psyche, behavior, and attitude,  besides knowledge - that’s why, if there are doubts, and for peace of mind - I always recommend a professional career consultant.

Which skills according to Inwill be key in the next 10 years?

Adaptability, critical and creative thinking – analysis, ability for self-improvement, self-management, technological skills– mastering work with AI, digital literacy, communication skills - empathy, social sensitivity, multicultural adaptability.

How to build a network of useful contacts without appearing interested?

Visit places where people are there for their own hobbies and interests - concerts, exhibitions, travels, sports. Talk to them not about work projects, but  about  a book or a movie, about your garden, about a new language you are learning. Do not cross the boundary of personal space, be consistent in your image, don't annoy, forget aggression in your approach and this will pay off.

What is the biggest mistake you have made in your career, and what did you learn from it?

I am lucky that I do not have such a moment. I may have missed a few paths as opportunities, but the one I am on brings me confidence and peace.

How to recognize a toxic work environment and when is it time to leave?

Many intrigues, inadequate treatment, contradictory assessments, lack of joy from work, mental fatigue and tension in the evening - it's time to put yourself first again and to get out of the routine.

What would you do differently if you could start over?

I am from the generation that emigrates professionally to North America, Australia, and South Africa. My colleagues have succeeded  well everywhere. I decided to stay for various reasons. Should I have gone with them? One of the many branching paths that life offers everyone - I do not regret, I have achieved a lot here and have the same opportunities at home, comparing myself to our various international forums with dermatologists from other countries. We are even ahead in some sectors.

How to maintain our motivation in times of stagnation?

Take a break, look at yourself from another angle - life is a matter of perspective, just like any insignificant situation. You will see a new chance, I am sure.

How to achieve balance between professional and personal life?

It is a whole art, especially if you are a woman. At different moments, different commitments take precedence. Smart people quickly assess their priorities, adapt, are flexible, learn to politely refuse, and balance is achieved. Let me not forget the most important: the right partner, who understands and supports and, of course, receives the same in return.

When is it time to change our career, not just the job?

When your ideas cannot be realized in that place, when the glass ceiling has long been right above your head and there is no other option – you accept the situation or leave.

If you had to give only one piece of advice to people seeking success, what would it be?

Know what you want, be prepared for your luck and smart enough to recognize it when it comes.

What is Inyour definition of a “successful career”?

To experience joy from what I do, to  create a successful team and to have the freedom to make decisions on my own and the strength to refuse.