The happy relationship begins with the relationship with ourselves

Introduce yourself in a few sentences..
My name is Eva Kuleva and I am a love coach and matchmaker. For the last 14 years, I have helped hundreds of single people choose the right partner to share their lives with, as well as people in relationships - to create more satisfying relationships with their partner.

I graduated in Business Management from Sofia University and before I fell in love with coaching, I was a Marketing and PR manager for a media group.

I believe that a happy relationship begins with the relationship with ourselves, which is why one of my coaching programs is called ‘The happy relationship begins with you.’ My other programs are ‘12 steps to a successful relationship’, ‘Develop harmonious relationships with your partner’ and ‘Manifest your desires with ease’.

Together with Emil Goranov from Zapoznajme, we organize and events for dating.

What did you dream of becoming in your childhood?

Psychotherapist :)

At what age did you earn your first money? Tell us some curious incident?

I earned my first money selling newspapers on the streets and in public transport :)

After that, in high school, I received a scholarship for excellent success.

As a student, I was a promotional face for an international cosmetic brand and advertised women's pads in a TV commercial. At that time, I became famous for the first time and strangers would talk to me in public places :)

What are the main factors and examples that shape us as individuals at an early age and form our interests? What is your recipe for curiosity, sources of information, and inspiration at this stage of our human development?

Has there been any significant difference in your perceptions at a more mature age regarding what motivates you to do or not do something?

As children, we are most strongly influenced by our parents or other people who raise us, as well as by our older siblings.

For example, my mother and father love to play cards, they were bridge players, my father even still plays actively. And as far back as I can remember, my sister, my mother, and my father play belote. Even today, when my sister comes back to Bulgaria, we take every opportunity to play cards. Additionally, I organize belote with friends almost every weekend. This way, I introduce my single friends whom I think might get along ;)

How I decide whether to do something or not - for the last 15 years, since I learned how the Law of Attraction works, my criterion for choice is only one - whether I feel good while doing it. If I don't feel good, I don't do it.

Whose decision was it where to pursue higher education and what to study? Was that decision correct, looking at it from today's perspective?

The decision to apply to the French high school was influenced by my desire to emulate my sister. And it is no coincidence that I was not accepted. I have always liked English and dreamed of going to America. I am glad that I fulfilled my dream during my student years.

And the decision to study Management and Business Administration at SU was mine and today it helps me a lot to manage my business.

Share more about your interests, knowledge, skills, and hobbies?

Besides playing cards and board games, I love to play tennis, pétanque, bowling, foosball, and table tennis. I ski with great pleasure every winter since I was 4 years old. I enjoy traveling, watching movies, reading a lot, and dancing. I also watch international reality formats for dating and partner relationships, such as Love Is Blind, Too Hot To Handle, The Ultimatum, etc.

I follow and teach the teachings of Abraham-Hicks on how to manifest our desires, attend their workshops around the world, and listen to recordings from their events every day.

My most valuable knowledge and skills are related to emotional management, time management, open and effective communication, emotional connection with people, maintaining an optimistic attitude, and the belief that everything is possible and depends on us. Accordingly, I inspire others through my personal example and the support I offer them.

I meditate every day and encourage everyone to do so. I recorded ‘A Short Meditation for Every Day’ for everyone who wants to meditate and doesn't know how.

Would you change your profession today and which fields of activity capture your interest?

At the moment, it is hard for me to imagine a more interesting, exciting, and satisfying profession than being a love coach :)

They say that personal branding is everything that people say about you when you are not in the same room with them. What would you like to hear today?

I would like people to share that they feel more at peace, happier, and more satisfied with their lives and relationships, thanks to our work together. They do, and I am very grateful.

Emotional intelligence, adaptability, and flexibility, as well as our soft skills, are key conditions for success in recent years. How do you cope with the daily challenges of life to stay in good shape and mood?

My main task every day is to feel good. And my daily routine is organized so that I feel good. Since our thoughts primarily determine how we feel, I take care to focus on pleasant thoughts.

Here is what I do almost every day - I meditate in the morning, write in my journal, listen to recordings of Abraham, tell myself affirmations, listen to music, jump on the trampoline in the living room, read, walk in the parks, meet friends for lunch and dinner, organize and attend various events.

What are the most important conclusions you have made so far about maintaining proper communication considering the different characters of the people you meet daily – colleagues, friends, relatives?

I follow a few basic principles that help me in communication:

♥ ‘Do not take anything personally. Everything people say is a reflection of their inner world and has nothing to do with you.’

♥ ‘Others are our mirror. What we see in them, we carry within ourselves. They help us get to know ourselves.’

♥ ‘Take responsibility for all your feelings and emotions, they are the result of your thoughts and choices.’

♥ ‘Focus only on what helps you feel good. Ignore the rest.’

What do you think about money? What is its influence on your life? What is your advice to people who often ask themselves questions related to money and how sufficient they are?

Money is energy, it is a means of facilitation, pleasure, and comfort. We have as much money as we believe we deserve.

My advice to people is to believe in abundance and unlimited possibilities. We can all have everything we want, as long as we believe it is possible and that we deserve it.

The resources in the Universe are unlimited, it expands in proportion to our desires.

I believe that love is the new world currency.

What is the most valuable career advice you would give to people?

Do what you love. Engage only in things that bring you pleasure and come easily to you. We all have talents that can be developed at any age. When we do something with passion and pleasure, we attract money with ease.

I became a coach at 35 years old, without having formal education for it, without having starting capital, and when there was not a single life coach in Bulgaria. Everything is possible :)