Whatever you do - remember why you do it

Introduce yourself in few sentences!

Nadia Bright - stand-up comedian, radio host at “Darik Radio”, author and host of the podcast“Your Story”, change coach (soon I will introduce the free use of the feminine form of this profession - coachess), public speaking trainer, author of the novel “Misha”, ambassador of the cause against domestic violence.

What did you dream of becoming in your childhood?

I don't remember that. I remember playing teacher.

At what age did you earn your first money? Tell us an interesting story?

I was in fourth grade, when I cut the cord of several necklaces of my grandmother and started making necklaces and bracelets from beads for my classmates. I earned quite a bit of money, considering my zero investment.

In fifth grade, I sold notebooks at school.

What are the main factors and examples that shape us as individuals at an early age and form our interests? What is your recipe for curiosity, sources and wells of information and inspiration at this stage of our human development?

I assume that if the child is surrounded by adults whose work is interesting and is a source of satisfaction, rather than something they constantly complain about or that causes tension at home, they will be more inclined to choose a profession. And this applies to most things in life - if knowledge in the very first environment you find yourself in is a value - it will likely be a value for you as well, and so on.

Has there been any significant difference in your perceptions in more mature age about what motivates you to do or not do something?

What was a shortcoming in my school years - that I only strive if I have a live interest in something, after realizing that I wouldn't change it, I turned it into my main trait and resource for work. Now I only work on what and when I want. So, I always work with desire. Yes, every choice has its price, but for the sake of my satisfaction and freedom, it's worth it.

Whose decision was it where to pursue higher education and what to study? Was this decision correct, looking back today?

In my family, higher education is perceived as mandatory, just like school. I chose my majors myself, although there were others who wanted to make choices instead of me.

Share with us more about your interests, knowledge, skills and hobbies?

Recently, I have been interested in history - just reading or listening to educational courses, in politics - in the same way as history. In fact, I understand most processes through examining the human factor in it - motivation, actions, results… The psyche of people is “my thing.” I read books, and lately I find myself, due to the global situation, unable to read heavier literature. Still, I couldn't suddenly start reading superficial books either, so I am in balance. I love biographies and autobiographies, as well as some travelogues. Of course - I am interested in everything that can develop the skills that are useful for my professional activities. And that means I must constantly be open to a lot of different information.

Would you change your profession today and which fields of activity capture your interest?

No :)

They say that your personal brand is everything that people say about you, when you are not in the same room with them. What would you like to hear today?

That I can be counted on. This is what is established from experience with a person. Everything else you can see on Facebook.

Emotional intelligence, adaptability and flexibility, as well as our soft skills are key conditions for success in recent years. How do you cope with the daily challenges of life to be in good shape and mood?

I don't always insist on being in good shape and mood. And if I happen to allow myself to frown in front of some of my commitments, I remind myself that no one is obligated to me and the choice is mine. I can quit, do my job, as if it’s some given or be grateful that I have the opportunity to do something I love and that it pays some bills. And quite quickly, both my shape and mood come back :)

What are the most important conclusions you have made so far about maintaining the right communication considering the different characters of the people you meet daily – colleagues, friends, relatives?

By nature, I am a bit nervous and critical (even someone who has known me for a long time and is reading this might say “A bit?”). I have long established that this temperament and behavior brings more harm than good. Therefore, I accepted that we are all human and everything happens. If something annoys me or I don't like it, I don't rush to react immediately, evaluate whether it is really important or if I can brush it off. Very few things are worth creating nerves for myself and/or others. Also, many people demonstrate some character through nervousness and demands on others. I don't need to demonstrate anything. But when something is really not right - I react. I react clearly, categorically and necessarily - with good manners.

What do you think about money? What is their influence on your life? What is your advice to people who often ask themselves questions related to money and how sufficient they are?

I think they don't matter if you have them :) In that sense - it's good to have them. How much to have is a question I can't answer. But I certainly know that I can't be close to or particularly respect people for whom money is the main goal and a measure of their personality.

What is the most valuable career advice you would give to people?

Whatever you do - remember why you do it.