Life Beyond Imagination: Destiny, Surreality, Unconditional Love

Her name is Violet Gavrilova – Vyorler (by birth she is Temenuzhka), but in France, Germany, and Switzerland, where she lives and works, she uses Violet and only Vyorler, due to the more difficult pronunciation by the locals. She was born on December 7, 1961, in Sofia. Her father (God rest his soul) used to say: "Never forget that you are a 5th generation Sofia native." She is a mother of 3 children, whose father passed away young, at the age of 40. In those times, she did not agree with what was happening in Bulgaria and decided to take a different path. First, she left for Germany and immediately after that began to explore where would be better for the children and found that in France, in terms of organization, social system, school, it would be easier for her. Her children were then 14 and 9 for her sons and 12 for her daughter. Nikola, Ognyan, and Veronika. Nowadays, her sons are 45 and 40, and her daughter is 43. She is a proud grandmother of 5 grandchildren. She hopes that she will also become a great-grandmother to the son of her daughter, who is 22.

The moment she becomes an entrepreneur?

Here she examines the situation in several different directions, which had a huge impact on these processes. She starts with the incident in which her mother committed suicide in front of her when she was only 4 years old. Unfortunately, she recalls an incident that turned out to be foundational for her. At her mother’s funeral, his aunt kept repeating "Lord, Lord" and she asked her "And who is the Lord?". At that time, she gave her the best possible answer for a child of that age: "That is the one who can do everything...".

When her father put her to bed at night, she began to talk to this Lord and told him, "Lord, since you can do everything, you must bring my mom back!". She does not know how much time passed after these nightly prayers, as she could neither count nor read and… one night she saw her mother, sitting on her bed. And that was the turning point when her life transitioned into one with different realities.

No matter how it sounds to the people who are now reading this incredible story at first glance, she tells it just as it is… Continuing her story, at that moment she reached out her hand and it passed through her body, but she heard her voice in her head. She was very happy that she had come, and she then said, "I was allowed to return because there is still work to do on this earth."

As a child, she accepted the whole situation as completely normal… 6 months after her mother’s death, her father remarried, and when he took her to kindergarten the next day, she announced that she had two mothers – one for the day, one for the night. Of course, here her father’s first reaction was to take her to Isul, then to a child psychiatrist, who declared that she had schizophrenia.

To this day, she is grateful to her mother because she was in the kitchen and in the evening, when she had to take the prescribed medicine for the first time, her mother told her to put the pills between her cheek and her teeth and not to swallow them, and when her father left the room, she would spit them into the sink… and this happened for two years.

There was once a young psychiatrist who literally saved her at one point… and she talked a lot in those times about this and that person who died then and then… something was unlocked in her, but she did not understand what it was… her father and stepmother thought they were fantasies, but many things started to happen as she said… and then at the age of 7-8, the said young psychiatrist advised her not to talk but to write down everything she wanted to say… that’s where the stories with her diaries began, which later led to many other subsequent problems. Her stepmother had discovered them.

To go back a little further in time… at 4 years old, like every little child, she loved to listen to fairy tales, but since there was no one to read them to her, she walked with books in hand, looked at the pictures, and made up the action. Meanwhile, she asked various people around her, "What is this and that letter?" and little by little at the age of 5 she could already read. At first, her parents did not believe that she could read, but after they realized it, her stepmother decided that she was a wunderkind. To this day, she understands her, but does not agree that it was exactly like that. They started sending her to Russian and German kindergartens, accordion, piano, solfeggio, athletics, folk dances, she reached ballet school in 7th grade, to music school… but here, her personal tragedy began… she never claimed to be an extraordinary child, but she had the ability to read in diagonal, through which her brain connected the elements and she could freely narrate the entire page… this led to huge expectations and she had no right to come home with grades of 5 anymore. Her stepmother had decided that through her she would show the world how good a mother she was and what she could make of her. Her dream was for her to become a doctor… all of this continued with frequent resorting on her part to… beatings… she still remembers those old washing machines and the wooden sticks used to turn the laundry..

From that moment on, things got worse and worse… she liked going to school, she never had problems with her studies… but… here she must mention her younger sister from her father’s second marriage, who was 7 years younger… now at this age she can explain what KARMA means, the boomerang and fate… as much as she had it easy in school, it was much worse with the education of her own daughter. This led to some additional resentment in her stepmother. The truth is that to this day she has forgiven both her father and his second wife, they have long since passed away. Now she mentions everything as facts, without unnecessary negative emotion.

Her real mother is from a small village in Kyustendil, Tishanovo, right on the border. Her grandfather (her mother’s father), who is a Bulgarian Macedonian from Bitola (a good producer of tobacco, rakia, honey.. an extremely hardworking person, from whom she learned a lot), once in time set a condition for her father that he would give him money for an apartment, but he must write her as a co-owner of the apartment in Sofia. When she turned 18, the "gift" for her birthday was "Claim from Tsvetan Dimitrov Gavrilov against Temenuzhka Tsvetanova Gavrilova".... Her father won the case, and she had the right to live in it until she takes her life into her own hands. Otherwise, her father filed a lawsuit against her on 12.07.1979 (her eighteenth birthday) and handed her a claim to take half of her apartment, as she had not paid the utility costs and… he won the case.

She was not accepted as a student in the first year. One fine day, her stepmother packed her things in a small suitcase and kicked her out of her own home with the words "You are a hindrance to my family, so leave." At that moment she had a friend, who was also named Temenuzhka, with whom they studied "Organizational Technique" in school, in a class only with girls. After her stepmother kicked her out, she put 2 cents in an external telephone booth in the block, called her and started crying. Then her friend, hearing her on the phone, also started to cry. Then her mother took the phone from her hands and said, "Nushe, where there is room for two daughters, there is room for a third. Take the bus and come home." They had two daughters. At that time she worked at "Sofstroy", because if you didn’t get into university immediately, you went into distribution and immediately got a job.

A little later she studied as a part-time student. Her dormitory was provided by "Sofstroy". That’s how she met her first husband. They were sent to an orienteering competition, and she understood nothing about maps and compasses, but she could run well. And her husband was from the family of one of the founders of the orienteering federation – Kolyo Siderov. Her mother-in-law was the chief dentist of a polyclinic. By coincidence, their son became her first husband. An extremely intelligent person, who at one point turned to alcohol, and it forgave no one, which is why he left this world young, as she shares above, at the age of 40.

With her husband, she could talk about science fiction and aliens, but the topic of the Lord was completely forbidden.

Meanwhile, she graduated in pedagogy for children aged 3 and preschool education, as well as higher education in music and painting. At that time, she began to take a strong interest in medicine. Here she wants to return to an incident at 17-18, when a friend had severe pain in her knees, and by placing her hands on her knees, she managed to greatly relieve her pain. At that moment, continuing to communicate with her mother at night, she "introduced" her to 33 energy entities (they appear as holograms), from which you do not learn much, but learn their different manifestations. After all this, after realizing that she could "take" pain from someone, she then began to take a strong interest in and study this topic. Overall, she is a person who is interested in many and radically different topics – history, ethnography, archaeology, and medicine. She also started to engage in anatomy. She has several diplomas – higher education from a university for school and preschool pedagogy; higher education from a nursing institute.

She returns to the moment when her joint life with her first husband ended and they divorced, as alcohol had reached its peak. But she must share that even when separated, they understood each other wonderfully. After this turn of events, she decided to take their children and go live abroad, in France. Initially, she worked three jobs simultaneously in San Louis, to be able to support all of them – babysitting, in hotels… It is interesting to note that in hotels she went through all levels – chambermaid, kitchen assistant, bartender. She knew the Russian language, which helped her a lot during the times of many Russian tourists. She also went through reception and thus completed the entire cycle, with all its accompanying problems. She always enjoyed this work a lot.

Everything she could do with her hands and head was accumulating more and more, she was gaining more experience and skills. She constantly kept notes, recorded on a tape recorder with whom and what she talked, what she saw. An almost complete puzzle formed. What was happening motivated her to open a bioenergetics office. And she is connected with everything - people, animals, plants, stones… in our Universe, there are 27 dimensions, which she shares as a fact, as it influenced everything she started to do then.

People began to come first to her home and waited for her in the living room, she worked with them on the topic of bioenergetics, then she took them up to the room that served as her office. She first worked most of the night, mainly at night, to have time during the day for her children while they were growing up. This happened in 1996. At one point, the workload became too much and she began to reduce the intensity because she really could not handle it physically and emotionally. In 2001, she told herself, "You are leaving the hospital where you work during the day and staying completely with your office…". Here she adds that during the day she worked in a hospital as a nurse to have regular work and income, and at night with her office.

2-3 years after working only in her office, she decided that she would create a whole bioenergetics center, where she would heal people and managed to build and invest in 11 houses. All of this was possible with her work in her office, but also with many loans, for which she is glad she was reliable, so she could regularly pay them off. She was sure she could handle it…. from 1 to 11 houses. To this day, she is selling them to focus on what she is doing now in Kyustendil. Otherwise, the office continues to this day, from April to October she holds seminars with people from all over the world. In Kyustendil, it is extremely important for her that there is mineral water, which helps a lot with what she is developing as a base and opportunities for treatment. But she will tell about that a little later.

She returns to her office in France. Once, she first bought the entire building in which it is located, and then with loans completed all the other 11 houses, of course as a perfect payer of everything on time, so that it could happen as planned. Here is the moment to share that after her move to France she married two more times. With her second husband (a Frenchman), they separated very quickly, leaving him one house. This was during the period 1992-1996. They separated because the misunderstanding between her firstborn and his son was catastrophic and this led to a logical conclusion of their relationship. She met her third husband (a Swiss) while working as a waitress in a restaurant. He had his own job, each took care of his own things.

To explain why she had to build new houses for the bioenergetics center and what happens in these houses: from Tuesday to Thursday she worked in her office, and from Friday to Monday in Milya, where her houses were located, 120 km from her office. The houses were connected with different sized groups, which determined which house would be rented. They were not rented at the same time. Everything is connected with meditations and balneo treatment (here she must mention that she graduated in another education related to alternative medicine, because she had to be protected by local laws and rights for regulating such activities, for which it is necessary to have a diploma). The smallest house was for 4 people, the largest for 32. It is important to note that she "does not heal", but only helps people to find the Light again..

Another interesting case from her life path is that in her student years, she made a promise to the Lord that if one day she had the opportunity, she would adopt as many children as she had given birth to. Her third husband was agreeable, but first as a Bulgarian she adopted them, and then he did too, but according to Bulgarian laws (he also has a grown son). They are Roma children and 3 of them, for balance, there were 2 girls and 1 boy. She had promised herself that when the social workers offered her, she would not choose, but would take the first 3 they offered her, because that was her fate. And she believes a lot in fate. The relationships between all her children years ago were wonderful, they had joint holidays (Easter, Christmas). Now everyone has gone their own way, as the age difference is significant.

It so happened that her third marriage is also coming to an end. She loved her third husband very much and had too much trust in him. This turned out to be a reason to be manipulated administratively and financially and he appropriated significant financial resources. At one point he decided that he wanted to deal with the finances of the company, which led to the disappearance of a 7-figure amount.

And we come to the crux with her hotel "Sagittarius" in Kyustendil. The story begins a little earlier, when she started leading groups of foreigners in Bulgaria. One day, after the period 2005-2007, her guests began to motivate her to create her own hotel with the words "Violet, make your hotel, at least we know where we are going!". And she is a unique fan of hygiene and space. There was no way she could suddenly make such a decision, as she had a series of financial obligations in France and decided to start small. In 2011, it turned out that she had temporarily lost her Bulgarian nationality, especially with the change of her names (from Temenuzhka to Violet, due to the sound and pronunciation in France) and it turned out that she had to submit documents for restoration. She chose Kyustendil, logically, because it was her mother’s region. There she had an aunt and uncle, her aunt passed away very early, and she had promised that she would help the one who remained, as they had no children.

After regaining her Bulgarian citizenship, she started. She named her company "Sagittarius", as according to her astrological chart she is deeply connected 5 times with this sign. In 2015 she made an apartment for guests, in 2017 a guest house, which she named "The Red House". In 2019 she was supposed to open the hotel, but Covid delayed its launch and it became a reality only on December 31, 2023. In practice, what she did in France, she started in Kyustendil. She bought dilapidated houses and renovated them. Before, the hotel had an old building, which housed a doctor’s office, and it was owned by a medical family. The café and the guest house were also a dilapidated wasteland, where snakes roamed. Everything is located in the city center, she had to comply with all norms – especially from an aesthetic point of view. She starts two more new facilities, which are all very close to each other. There are no ideas for future sale of these properties, but rather to develop the place.

She will also mention the fact that she loves to engage in a lot of sponsorship – of young artists, of young musicians... she brings musicians and artists from Switzerland who hold exhibitions in Bulgaria. She is a sponsor of the holiday of "Zelnika" in Zhabokrit.

In one of her new properties in Kyustendil, she wants to hold small exhibitions and concerts, at least that’s how she envisions it. The second new property is two stories and probably after renovation will develop as a vacation format.

Hotel “Sagittarius” is visited by mixed groups of foreigners, but also many Bulgarians. Now the moment has come when what she does in Kyustendil needs to be shown to the world and in her homeland Bulgaria, as what she is doing, very few people do, especially in Bulgaria. As mentioned above, she is a perfectionist on the topic of hygiene, with her there are no curtains and carpets, but electric shutters, large French windows, with a lot of light and space. Her first architects for her hotel had put 6 rooms on a floor, but she asked for fewer, but to be 20 sq.m., with a lot of space, air, and light. Now on each floor there are 4 rooms, a total of 10 rooms. She loves to restore old furniture, each room has its own spirit and energy, style. Everything goes by the color of the rainbow – the reception is in red, the lobby is orange, continuing with green, the blue and violet floors. She works a lot with disabled people, supports the club of disabled people in Kyustendil. She helps organizations that lovingly raise dogs.

She loves to celebrate and with many friends, and on her 64th birthday she gathered 50 friends and told them that she did not want a gift, but to put a small amount in an envelope for the children, the disabled, and the homeless animals in Kyustendil.

Returning to her business in France, in 2021, after the disappointment and appropriation of funds by her third husband, she began to sell the houses, but her office there remains her main business. They have been divorced for 5 years, and the cases are still not finished. Her husband changes his 4th lawyer, buying more time, as every year you can change your lawyer, and this restarts the cases from the beginning according to French laws. At one point, the judge must express an opinion. But he knows that once they officially divorce, she will be able to file a claim/case for the return of the 7-figure amount and … this delays the divorce and the resolution of the problem.

She is very grateful for every difficulty that life has "offered" her, because it has made her the person she is now. This has made her a person with a very resilient character.

Both of her sons married Indonesians, who call her "mom." Her youngest son from her biological children also graduated as a Heilpraktiker therapist in France. Her children have taken their lives into their own hands and each is following their own path.

Her clients/patients come to her for all sorts of reasons - from a runny nose to cancer. The main thing her work does is unlock their blockages and to talk about how they can change their lifestyle so that everything in their body can return to normal functioning. She has had 4 generations of clients, people who are satisfied and are connected to her for life. At one point they become friends. On a purely emotional level, she talks to them about their new jobs, about family problems, problems with children, any conversation is possible. Everything is connected with trust between them, then the effect is most serious and at many different levels. She does not give advice, she expresses an opinion, but everyone can decide whether to consider and accept what she shares.

She can see everyone's problems like an X-ray – on both physical and emotional levels. She does not need to see the person or their picture, it is enough to know their name. This gives her enough information to share with people.

There are universal and cosmic principles, by virtue of which she has no right to think about her future. Every day, energy leads her, consistently, as she feels it. Her inner self tells her what to do at every moment.

There are no bad people, there are those who have forgotten that they are good.

Artificial intelligence?

She believes that this is scary… at the moment for people it is just a game. According to her, at some point AI will become so powerful that it may make decisions for us. People will continue to exist because they are an interesting biological material for our planet. In her words, we are currently on the threshold between the 3rd and 4th dimensions and we are in a great contradiction, between Light and Darkness. We are a large avalanche that is gaining momentum but does not know where it is going and may crash. However, everything still depends on us, we are given options from "A" to "Z", but it depends on us how "awakened" we are and ready to change. Many important decisions about our direction are ahead, at the moment everything looks like complete chaos and will become even more serious.

She believes that in the times of AI, healthcare will not exist. According to her, we will have to switch to self-healing and that is "the awakening" she talks about. If we want to survive… there is no cell in our body that cannot reproduce itself, and she claims that this is what she teaches people. Everyone should be able to find a solution on their own, and it all starts with thinking. The moment we are positively oriented, we have won the first 10% of healing because we attract positive thoughts. It is entirely possible to attract 100% positive thoughts.

According to her, immortality makes sense only if you continue to live for others and do good for them, in unconditional love. It is possible for this to happen, of course. Life expectancy is constantly increasing. Technologically, we are developing well, but precisely because of this comfort, we work less and less on ourselves at a mental level and become consumers. Those who cannot get out of their consumerism will leave their physical form of life faster, but those who break free from these desires and feelings will live longer. She gives the example that cancer is a "lack of light in cells" and that changing our thinking can help us the most, i.e. we need to "let in" the "light" again and drive out the "darkness." This, according to her, is related to: free will, loving everyone and everything, forgiving everyone and everything, and not judging anyone for anything.

She says she would not like to be called an entrepreneur… she does not think about money, for her it is important to have helped the person in front of her, to have understood her… and that she is available to everyone at any time of the day.

She claims that the energy of the hotel, the house, and the coffee is connected with her fluids and energy and that even if she is not there, visitors will feel much better after being her guests in any of these places.

According to her, the ego is healed when you stop thinking about yourself.

She is convinced that we are at the end of this 3rd dimension and that it has already worn out. She gives the example of a rag that was new at first, but over time it wears out, frays, and falls apart – this is how, according to her, the world is currently happening. Complete chaos, resetting… in her words, everything started from 2026, last year was preparatory, and the world will restart by 2031… we will see how, because everything depends on us.

She again emphasizes that immortality makes sense only if we continue to live for others… in unconditional love.

According to her, Bulgaria is facing another 2 years of crisis, until 2028, after which it will gradually pass. A period of very serious upheavals is beginning, during which many people will leave… especially those who have earned to leave. A cleansing will begin.

We write in the 3rd person singular because the lady does not want her ego to come out of "the last drawer of her Soul's chest," that is where it belongs, not to grow.

When asked what she would say to people who react with the words "Is this woman out of her mind?", she replies that she has heard this many times and would only say one thing: "I love you!"… because according to her she is part of them and they are part of her.