"Love, Forgive, Do Not Judge" - Philosophy for Life and the World

Who is Violet Vyorler? 

Meet her in our first material about her!

What are the places in Bulgaria that you enjoy visiting?

Rila Monastery, Rupite, Stoyna the Blessed, the village of Dolene, Krastova Gora, Karajdov Kamak, Perperikon, Belintash.

What is special about the mentioned places?

This is our beginning. We are the ones who created what humanity is today, and not only for Europe, I reach all the way to Japan and India.

What was the first country and city you visited in your life?

Before 1989, these were Romania and the USSR (Bucharest and Moscow), and after 1989 it was Berlin, a place where I felt freedom. I still have a piece of the wall to this day. Interestingly, when I was in Berlin, I missed Bulgaria.

What places do you like to visit abroad?

The most important thing to note is that I let my spirit guide me. I go where there is something to process, where my karma leads me. I love to visit historical places. I love local food, to see what, where, and how our contemporaries do things. But it is always primarily important for me to understand myself, to “see” what has happened to me at some point in the past, racing hundreds or thousands of years back. Above all and everyone, I want to discover myself.

What are the places outside Bulgaria that have impressed you the most?

Japan, India, Indonesia, Australia, New Zealand, up to Vladivostok. I love our land everywhere, it has its own charm, its uniqueness. Overall, there is no place that I do not want to visit.

Have you copied anything interesting seen abroad in your business?

Copying, no! But, I have always taken supplements. In the early 90s, I created for myself the so-called bioenergetic kitchen. Here is the moment to say that I am a vegetarian. I have              been in many and different hotels around the world – from cheap to pretentious. I have always looked at what new I can learn or what I can do in my life in the future. I wouldn’t say that I copied any idea for my hotel “Sajitarius” or in “The Red House” for guests, both in Kyustendil. There I had a very clear concept and ideas from the very beginning.

Which people in the world are happier? For example – in America or in Asia? Or in other words: are the poorer or the richer?

Categorically, those who LOVE. Regardless of social status.

There is a theory that you understand a lot about the person in front of you if he/she talks about the hotel of their dreams. Have you made this hotel so far?

Not yet, I am walking my path, on the path of the hotel of my dreams. But my entire base in Kyustendil I consider as a whole. So far I have made the coffee first, then the guest house, then the hotel. In each subsequent stage, I build on something.

Which people have impressed you the most around the world?

The humble.

Would you make a distinction between people in Asia and America?

I prefer Asians, they are much more polite, much more smiling and pure souls.

Are you afraid of flying on a plane?

No, I fly often, I have never changed my decision whether to fly on a given day.

What are the countries you have repeated most often as destinations?

Germany, Switzerland, and France I do not count because I live there. But, I can say Indonesia, not only because of my two daughters-in-law, who are Indonesians. This includes the Scandinavian countries – Sweden and Norway. But, if I have to express myself more abstractly: I go where I am needed.

Do you connect work with travel?

Yes, but I do not impose myself. For example – if the person next to me on the plane sees that he needs my professional help, I give him signals that I can help him, but I never start a conversation. If he/she decides, he/she turns to me.

What advice would you give to a novice entrepreneur – what to be careful about, what is important to do or foresee?

Above all, to be honest with oneself and others. I am of that type of people, although many people have considered me naive. This is also the way the Universe and God give me a path to move forward.

Are there people you have met by chance while traveling and still keep in touch with?

There are many such people. For me, friendship is the most important. My patients are also my friends, from my side, I do not insist on being their friend.

Is there any interesting incident during your travels?

I have thousands of such cases. There was one story where a little boy on the plane felt sick. They thought it was motion sickness from the flight itself, but I asked his mother to take him immediately for tests and to find the cause. We exchanged phone numbers and later I found out that a month later, the boy had heart surgery, for which I am glad that I managed to give and that my sign and signal were understood. The lady was from Holland. We maintain communication to this day, and the child is now a grown person and has taken his life into his own hands.

Is there any advice you have given to your children regarding traveling the world?

Interestingly, none of my 3 children travel, not even my 3 adopted ones. As much as I love to travel, they do not. I do not expect my children to see and feel things as I do in life.

Have your patients invited you to visit them in their country?

Many times, let’s say, people from Northern Germany, from England, from Sweden have invited me. In Italy and Spain, I have been invited.

Which people do you prefer more – the conservatives in the north or those in the south who somehow enjoy life more?

Conservative people cannot be my friends because I am boring to them. They do not understand me. They must be open-minded people, regardless of whether they live in the north or the south.

In some Western European countries, it is tolerated that a young job candidate travels more and these people have more bonus points in the decision whether to be hired. What do you think about that?

If it depended on me, if I were the interviewer, I would ask the first question to the person in front of me “Why are you leaving…?”, under what conditions, with what financial means…whether they were provided to him/her by someone or he/she obtained them himself/herself.. for me this is of great importance.

In Bulgaria, we are a bit on the principle that “What I do not know, I do not eat.”

When I have hired people in my company in France, I will admit that few people can keep up with my pace. They have to work when I work, and I am at work sometimes for 24 hours, which is hard to achieve for many people.

What does it mean for you to “trust an employee”?

I am a very trusting person and at the beginning, I always give a large credit of trust. When you believe, you give the person all the chances to show themselves in the best light. But, there is no way, at one point I assess whether the person is suitable or not.

Until the beginning of World War II, Bulgarians were the most hardworking people…we are no longer and that sounds very sad.

There is an interview on the platform with a person who says “At the end of your career, ask yourself the question: was it worth the effort?”. This title raised a lot of questions, comments, and conclusions. What would you say in response to this question?

Definitely, I would repeat my path 1:1, without any need for change.

Is there a country you have not visited and one you have, but do not want to return to?

For a country I would like to visit is Gabon.

I would not want to visit America again. There is a lot of falseness and materialism. Everyone is smiling and nice to you, as long as you show your wallet.

Still, I have heard that in America there is great respect among representatives of all professions. For example – a millionaire shows respect to the cleaner in the store. What would be your comment?

I apologize, but this is absolute hypocrisy that supports their personal brand.

So who are the best people on the Planet?

There are no bad people, there are only those who have “forgotten” the good.

You have had three marriages behind you – a Bulgarian, a Frenchman, and still with a Swiss, with a huge dose of disappointment in all three. What do you think about family?

It is the most sacred and should be taken very seriously.

For me, I take this as tests that have given a lesson and challenged me to stay on the side of good on Earth. They have challenged me to show that I can fight and stay on the right side.

What advice do you give to your children for their career development?

First, they need to ask me something, otherwise, I do not give any unsolicited advice. With them, I listen more than I speak. If they introduce me to the topic, I can share something or ask a question, otherwise, I do not.

How important is it to travel?

It is extremely important, even though it is said that planes lead to pollution of nature, but with a horse or on foot, it cannot be done and we cannot reach far. Through traveling, you step out of your small, square, practical world.

Why do you think people (a mass phenomenon), when they travel somewhere and are at a given destination, do not stop to take pictures, somehow do not enjoy the moment, but then at home, they start to look and recall? What is the reason for this phenomenon, you think?

I am such a person. I experience the moment, capture it, but I love when after some time I lie down, to look, study, and repeat the experience.

Let’s talk about artificial intelligence: Is it something good, something bad, something unknown?

I love science fiction literature because it helped me “see” as a child. One of my favorite authors was Isaac Asimov, who beautifully wrote the 4 laws of robotics. And Lyuben Dilov the father had developed the 5th law. This fact has always made me feel calm and not afraid. However, now there are no such laws, and we do not know what follows. There are people who know, they are called “300 families without Light, pawns and pieces, not kings and queens, nor leading figures”. It sounds abstract, but that is the truth.

Even now we are imposed a false history and memories of the past. I will give a slightly clearer example: in the Middle Ages, the average height of a human being was 160 cm. Why then were 7-meter gates needed, super high palaces? The whole history has been changed. Apparently, there were “other people” who could have given us a lot, but they were not given a path, they were destroyed, and we were imposed a false history of the times, especially between the 15th and 18th centuries. So it is with artificial intelligence, we continue on the same path.

Another example: a while ago in an American school, the question was asked to children “Where does fresh milk come from?” – one said “from the carton”, another “from the bottle”, none said “from the cow”.

This means that now AI works with information that we give it, this is how we train it, but we train it incorrectly, we mislead it, it begins to live in an illusion of reality, which is very dangerous for humanity. It has no real idea, we also impose information on it, which is often not close to reality.

There is also something positive in using AI. It is commented that thanks to AI, we will be able, while riding a bus, to understand info about everything around us – restaurants, historical monuments, buildings, companies. The other direction is that thanks to virtual reality we will be able to see things from our excursion, that we missed during our trip, something like post-factum “Google Street View”. How would you comment?

Then we will become even bigger consumers, lazier, and will not care about anything, something like “murder” of our curiosity. Look even now, fewer and fewer people read books, some diagonally, others read less and less. What is happening to general culture? After several generations, they probably will not know how to read.

Let’s consider the following situation – let’s assume that all the people on earth are on one plane, which is either on the ground or flying or spinning around its axis. Where are we going? Are we standing still or developing or going backward?

Every development has two spirals – to the right and to the left. To the right goes up, to the left goes down. It would be good to fly in tangent and co-tangent, imagine a cross and we encompass all time zones or: I live today, remember yesterday, see tomorrow, see 100 years ahead.

Okay, but what is happening at the moment? Where are we going on Earth?

At the moment it is spinning in one place. Only around its axis. We are not progressing, the male spiral. To the right is + on the male spiral, to the left is – on the female one.

What needs to happen for us to see all 4 directions you described above?

This reality, the third dimension in which we live must be destroyed. In one word, we need to give a restart to the world. This has already begun in 2025 with the preparation, the real start is this year. The year 2032 is the first stage, and the second stage is longer and continues until 2050. In the period from 2050 to 2060, it will be decided whether Humanity has the right to enter the 4th dimension and be called homo-spiritualis or will remain a dead homo-sapiens.

What follows in this 4th dimension?

Then we do not need this AI. We will master telepathy, then we will all be one whole. AI only pushes us down, into the abyss. Without laws, as in robotics, nothing good awaits us.

Okay, then in our life journey, in which we are in a body, in which we physically exist, everyone has some goal in their head, thoughts…what happens then, when a person is no longer there, what is the next level?

Example: my spirit decides that it makes no sense to be connected to this body anymore, because there is no evolution. In other words, the trinity body-soul-spirit. At that moment the soul flies up, the body remains, as always nothing is lost in this world and we remain in one moment between the 3rd and 27th dimension, depending on the evolution of the spirit, because there are both old and new and here the balance begins to be made – what I have done well, what I have not done well, what and how I need to do. The spirit itself makes this analysis because it is connected with everyone and everything, it is part of the Universe. Every spirit makes an analysis according to its own development. That’s why there are many lives, to correct our mistakes or to make them again, for everyone it is different.

How many of these spirits reach the right analysis?

Very few. We can only imagine things up to the 7th dimension, above are particles, which we could not imagine, we simply do not have that development. We sneak up to the 4th, which is the so-called “6th sense”, what my stomach or heart told me, but further for the 5th-6th-7th dimension very few people are that aware. Every spirit decides whether to return to this Earth or go to Andromeda, Orion, Pegasus…a spirit cannot stop its development, it is part of the Universe.

At the beginning of our conversation, we talked about one kind of travel – physical, and now about spiritual, right?

Yes, exactly.

That is, you are talking about several parallel, at least 10 different forms of life, on different planets, with different time dimensions, goals, and ideas?

Yes. There are even many more.

Memory according to you is deliberately erased so that the person does not suffer when they are reborn?

Yes, the idea is to not make the same mistake. Everyone comes with an absolutely pure soul. The important thing is, when we become parents to know what we think and what and why we do, because we start to program the next generation.

Again about AI, about the theory of Ilan Musk, in which we will be able to transfer our consciousness into humanoids. Does this mean that we are "rewinding the game"?

Yes, it means that, but God Almighty, I hope this never happens, because we will lose ourselves. It's like depriving my spirit of the opportunity to exist and evolve. Without our karma, our life has no meaning.

What is the formula for our true happiness?

Love, forgive and do not judge – this is true happiness, not in what and how much I have. I live in the confidence that life is beautiful.